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Monday, August 1, 2011

Winner Winner Chicken Dinner!

(I love that saying. I don't know why. Sweets loves it, too. We are odd...)

I'm sorry to keep you waiting all day! It's been a bit CrAzY around here...

Anyway... The WINNER of the AWESOME DD PRIZE PACK is.....

Comment #13 - Carie

"Carie said...
We would love to win this! What an awesome time you must have had with them. I'm looking forward to being able to meet them soon. :)
July 31, 2011 2:21 PM"

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

You have 48 hours to email me at theprincessandthepump@gmail.com to claim your prize!

Stay tuned... I have some fun giveaways planned for the fall!

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I Could Really Use A Wish Right Now

Last week, I took Sweetpea camping.

Stop laughing.  I'm serious.

Her bestie's family owns a motor home and invited us to go along for a day!  How could I pass up an opportunity for Sweets to have a "sleepover"?!?  Honestly, I think she's too young for sleepovers but this was PERFECT!  I would be right there - along with her friend's Mom and one of MY besties and HER kids - who are also best buds with Sweets!


In all, there FOUR Mommies and EIGHT kids.  Yes - we were outnumbered!!

And we had a BLAST!

It was so incredibly fun!  We did crafts.  The kids played.  We relaxed.  We went swimming.  We roasted hot dogs over the fire for dinner.  Then we roasted marshmallows and made s'mores that night.



That was a BIG treat for Sweets!  She rarely gets to snack on marshmallows!  Just look at that happy face!

My friend, her daughter, Sweets and myself all slept in one pull out bed.  Her son, who is the same age as Sweets, slept up on the bunk above us.  Apparently, they are "boyfriend" and "girlfriend".  Hmmm... J is unhappy about this!

Anyway, she was up on the bunk and they were looking out one of the windows, "spying" on squirrels.  He said that he wished he was a squirrel.  There was some discussion on the awesomeness of squirrels.  Then he said...

"No.  Sweets, What I really wish is that you didn't have diabetes."

"Yeah.  I wish that, too."

My friend and I stopped motionless in our tracks and looked at each other.  *Tears*  So incredibly sweet.

We are so blessed with wonderful friends!

Even so, we really could use that wish right now.


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SEVEN

Sunday, July 31, 2011

Seven years ago today I married my best friend.

Before I share "the story of us", I want to talk - for a minute - about something people rarely talk about... How diabetes can affect your marriage.

It's not always pretty.

Diabetes requires time. And money. It causes stress. People grieve - at different rates and in different ways. It can make you feel isolated. Angry. Scared.

Having little to no time together as a couple, the financial stress of medical bills and supplies, stress and worry over your child's health, being at different points in the grieving process and approaching it in different ways, resentment over the distribution of care, little sleep.... It all adds up to a very volatile combination.

Is it any wonder that it all becomes too much for some people?

It can either push you apart or push you together.

I am blessed and lucky that diabetes has pushed us closer. We are like our own island. We get it. And most other people around us just don't. We are there for each other. We work as a team and we pull each other through. I am so grateful!

Maybe this post could encourage you to talk to your spouse- to celebrate your victories or to pull together as a team. To get real about the stress of life with diabetes. And to vow to move forward together.

Maybe.

I hope so.

I have no great wisdom. No great advice. Just a wish for happiness and for love to triumph over all else. Especially diabetes.

The rest of this post I wrote last year. I just changed the number of years. Because it's still as true today as it was then!



If you've been reading my blog, you already know that J is a wonderful husband and father. You know that he is every bit as capable in handling diabetes as I am - and that he does handle it, every day. You know he takes good care of his girls and loves us both to pieces.

So... today I thought I'd tell you the story of how "we" came to be....

Go get some popcorn and a drink. Get comfy. Here we go...


Let's go back to the Spring of 2003.


I was part of a prayer group that met once a week during lunch at my school. The ladies in this group are all wonderful and we always had a LOT of fun together. They are also some of the most kind and caring people I have ever met.


One day after school, one of the ladies in the group came into my room holding a magazine. She said that didn't know I would be interested in this... or ready for this (I had just broken up with a boyfriend).... but she saw this advertisement and thought of me. It was an ad for eharmony.


I thanked her and took the magazine. I didn't think much about it. But later, I looked at it again. And I thought... "why not?". So I registered.


In the meantime, I had been reading a book that had a chapter devoted to the importance of being baptized as an adult. I was sprinkled as a baby and never felt I needed to do it again. But this book made a good argument that I couldn't get out of my head. It said something to the effect that while God won't hold blessings back from you, He wants you to obey and by doing so you can open up a whole new world of possibilities. (for the record, I do not think you have to be baptized as adult for it to "count" or something. I think it's a personal decision that between YOU and GOD. No one else.) So, on May 22, 2003, I was baptized. (I tell you the date because soon you will notice a pattern....)

On June 1, 2003, my "match" with J was created on eharmony.


The way eharmony works is that you fill out a questionnaire about yourself. Then it matches you up with people that are like you. Then you can choose to initiate a conversation. The first step is multiple choice questions. You pick five and send them to your match. They answer and pick 5 to send to you. Then you do a "Must Have/Can't Stand" list. You pick your top 10 of each and send it to your match. They do the same and send it back. Then you do short answer questions. You pick 3 (or write your own). Your match answers and sends you questions. Then you move to actually emailing each other. Yes, it IS a process. You can skip all that if you want but I kinda liked it. And hey.... it worked!


By the time J and I were finally emailing each other, summer was in full swing and I was in Florida for 2 weeks. So we talked a lot on email and decided to meet when I got home. By the time we actually met, we felt like we already knew a lot about each other. Which was nice.



We also found that we had a LOT in common. More than eharmony knew.... Like - we both went to the same college. He graduated in June of '94 and I started in August of '94. We both love sports - and even went to the same tennis tournament the same years - and sat in the same section just rows apart. Weird. We both like amusement parks and thrill rides - and he's pretty sure (I think he's crazy but whatever) that my good friend and I were the ones that hooked him up to the bungee ride. We worked there and he was visiting. There's lots of stuff like that.

On July 22, 2003, we met for the first time at a little park close to his house.

On October 22, 2003, he asked me to marry him at the same little park.

On July 31, 2004, we got married in a little chapel on campus.

On March 6, 2006, our sweet little Sweetpea was born.
And you know the rest of the story....


J -


It's hard to believe that it's been 6 years.... It seems like yesterday and forever ago all at the same time. 6 years ago we said "for better or worse". We've had countless wonderful, joyful times. And we've had our share of rough times, too. 6 years ago we said "in sickness and in health". I always imagined that would be when we were old and gray. Not a mere 5 years later. And NOT in reference to our sweet baby girl.


Diabetes entered our lives like a tornado - turning everything we knew upside down. The world it left behind was different and new. And it seems, at times, like everything changed on that day.
What has not changed is my love for you and for Sweetpea. I love you both more than anything in the world.


Today. Tomorrow. And No Matter What.



Happy Anniversary!

Musical Accompaniment: Love of My Life by Jim Brickman and Michael W. Smith (the song we danced to at our wedding) and God Blessed the Broken Road by Rascall Flatts


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I LOVE FRED - A Repost

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

 This post was originally published on November 25, 2010.  But I thought it should come back.  

You see, today marks the 90th anniversary of the discover of insulin.  90 years ago today Doctors Banting and Best were successfully able to isolate insulin for the first time.  And in doing, saved countless lives.

Including the life of my daughter...
 

Yesterday, I wrote about many of the diabetes blessings that I am thankful for.  I was going to write more today about about how thankful I am for my wonderful hubby and darling little girl.  And I AM so VERY thankful for them!  
But I write about them a lot.

So today I'm going to tell you about Fred.  A man I have never met.  A man I am so incredibly thankful for.  I man who holds a special place in my heart.

Do you know who I'm talking about?

Why, Dr. Frederick Banting, of course!
 
From NobelPrize.org:

In October 1920 in Toronto, Canada, Dr. Frederick Banting, an unknown surgeon with a bachelor's degree in medicine, had the idea that the pancreatic digestive juices could be harmful to the secretion of the pancreas produced by the islets of Langerhans.

Early in 1921, Banting took his idea to Professor John Macleod at the University of Toronto, who was a leading figure in the study of diabetes in Canada. Macleod didn't think much of Banting's theories. Despite this, Banting managed to convince him that his idea was worth trying. Macleod gave Banting a laboratory with a minimum of equipment and ten dogs. Banting also got an assistant, a medical student by the name of Charles Best. The experiment was set to start in the summer of 1921.

Banting and Best with a diabetic dog
Banting, right, and Best, left, with one of the diabetic dogs used in experiments with insulin.
Credits: University of Toronto Archives

Banting and Best began their experiments by removing the pancreas from a dog. This resulted in the following:
  • It's blood sugar rose.
  • It became thirsty, drank lots of water, and urinated more often.
  • It became weaker and weaker.
The dog had developed diabetes.

After a while, they removed the pancreas, sliced it up, and froze the pieces in a mixture of water and salts. When the pieces were half frozen, they were ground up and filtered. The isolated substance was named "isletin."

The extract was injected into the diabetic dog. Its blood glucose level dropped, and it seemed healthier and stronger. By giving the diabetic dog a few injections a day, Banting and Best could keep it healthy and free of symptoms.

Banting and Best showed their result to Macleod, who was impressed, but he wanted more tests to prove that their pancreatic extract really worked.

Banting and Best's laboratory Banting's and Best's laboratory, where insulin was discovered.
Credits: University of Toronto Archives


For the increased testing, Banting and Best realized that they required a larger supply of organs than their dogs could provide, and they started using pancreases from cattle. With this new source, they managed to produce enough extract to keep several diabetic dogs alive.

The new results convinced Macleod that they were onto something big. He gave them more funds and moved them to a better laboratory with proper working conditions. He also suggested they should call their extract "insulin." Now, the work proceeded rapidly.

In late 1921, a third person, biochemist Bertram Collip, joined the team. Collip was given the task of trying to purify the insulin so that it would be clean enough for testing on humans.
During the intensified testing, the team also realized that the process of shrinking the pancreases had been unnecessary. Using whole fresh pancreases from adult animals worked just as well.

The team was eager to start testing on humans. But on whom should they test? Banting and Best began by injecting themselves with the extract. They felt weak and dizzy, but they were not harmed.
Collip continued his work to purify the insulin. He also experimented with trying to find the correct dosage. He learned how to diminish the effect of an insulin overdose with glucose in different forms. He discovered that the glucose should be as pure as possible. Orange juice and honey are good examples of foods rich in glucose.

In January 1922 in Toronto, Canada, a 14-year-old boy, Leonard Thompson, was chosen as the first person with diabetes to receive insulin. The test was a success. Leonard, who before the insulin shots was near death, rapidly regained his strength and appetite. The team now expanded their testing to other volunteer diabetics, who reacted just as positively as Leonard to the insulin extract.

Amazing, isn't it?  What if he had given up?  What if the criticism he got kept him from pursuing his theories?

Do you know what "life" was like before insulin? 

Before the discovery of insulin, a diabetes dx meant eventual coma and certain death.  A person with diabetes had a lifespan of only one month to two years. Doctors eventually found that a near-starvation diet of a few hundred calories per day helped to extend some patients' lives by a year or two. Most patients were severely malnourished and very few weighed much more than 70 pounds towards the end of their illness. 
From DiabetesHealth.com:
In his book, The Discovery of Insulin, Michael Bliss describes the painful wasting death of many people with diabetes before insulin: "Food and drink no longer mattered, often could not be taken. A restless drowsiness shaded into semi-consciousness. As the lungs heaved desperately to expel carbonic acid (as carbon dioxide), the dying diabetic took huge gasps of air to try to increase his capacity. 'Air hunger' the doctors called it, and the whole process was sometimes described as 'internal suffocation.' The gasping and sighing and sweet smell lingered on as the unconsciousness became a deep diabetic coma. At that point the family could make its arrangements with the undertaker, for within a few hours death would end the suffering."

Gruesome, isn't it?  
Diabetes doesn't seem so silent or innocuous when you know what happens.
And this hits me so hard because I KNOW....  So many of us do...  that sweet smell.  The struggling for breath.  The constant thirst and urination.  The pain.  The indifference to food.  The lethargy.  The thin, frail body.  The throwing up.  The look.  The smell...
Do you wonder, like I do, "How much time did we have left?  What if I hadn't pressed for that blood test?  What if we had waited?  What if I had ignored it longer...?"  


From PBS.org:
The discovery of insulin was one of the most revolutionary moments in medicine. Though it took some time to work out proper dosages and to develop manufacturing processes to make enough insulin of consistent strength and purity, the introduction of insulin seemed literally like a miracle. One year the disease was an automatic death sentence; the next, people -- even children -- had hopes of living full and productive lives even with the disease. Estimates show there are more than 15 million diabetics living today who would have died at an early age without insulin.

One of those 15 million diabetics is my child.  

 

I can't even begin to tell you how grateful I am to those doctors.  How glad I am that they didn't give up.  

Heidi over at A Work in Progress said that Dr. Banting would be one of the first people she looked for in Heaven.  I agree.  But I have a feeling there will be a long line to say "Thank You".
The Banting House still stands today in London, Ontario, Canada.  It features a statue of statue of Sir Frederick Banting and the Flame of Hope. 




From www.diabetes.ca:
This symbol of hope burns for all those with diabetes that a cure will soon be found. It is also recognized as a tribute to Dr. Banting’s unrelenting pursuit of insulin; to the lives already lost to the disease; and to the continuing perseverance of those who live with diabetes today.

While the Flame of Hope is a symbol of hope, it is also a reminder that insulin is only a control for diabetes, not a cure. Only when that cure is at last found, will the Flame of Hope be extinguished.

I don't know about you, but I plan on being there when that flame is extinguished. 



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